Am having premature ejaculation problems. What is the best type of cream or gel to reduce it before sex.?

Well, there certainly are topical solutions you can use to numb or deaden the nerve endings. However this can be tricky because unless you use a condom (which by the way also helps to lengthen your time a bit) the cream or gel will get on your partner too. This is no fun, because it is not your partner's problem of needing to last longer, it's yours. (I am saying partner because this goes for heterosexual and homosexual couples.)





The best thing you can do is change it up a little. First, I might say masturbation prior to sex can help. You should be able to get and maintain an erection within 20 minutes after ejaculating. This can also be used with your partner, you can have her (or him) perform oral on you, and after you ejaculate you can concentrate totally on your partner for as long as it takes for you to get another erection.





But, if all this waiting and hoping for a 2nd erection doesn't appeal to you, here's an article with some great information on how to use positions to reduce premature ejaculation. http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/sex-tips-advice/how-to-extend-your-sexual-performance-by-using-sex-positions-like-an-expert-by-edward-white/





I hope this helps you, and remember, if it happens, don't get disheartened. Just pay some attention to your partner and try again.

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